What advice would you give to leaders uncomfortable with vulnerability?
Global CIO & CISO in Manufacturing, 201 - 500 employees
If you want to understand people, you have to be open enough to share yourself. And that doesn’t mean sharing everything. There are boundaries, but it becomes important for you to be vulnerable and to empathize. You don’t always have to provide solutions. I always try to find solutions, so I have to hold myself back. I just listen and then I’ll let them know whether I can relate or not.Whether I'm meeting with a vendor, a colleague, or just talking to my kids, I end up closing almost every conversation by saying, "Let me know how I can help you. I don't know if I can, but let me know when I can help you. I won't know unless you tell me." If you're not taking those things into account and you're not following any of those practices, then you're likely to be very isolated and self-centered.
It doesn’t matter how big your team is, you have to make the time to invest in them whether you have one or 15 direct reports. If someone was a rockstar but suddenly starts plummeting, and you can’t figure out what's going on, then forget about having a half-hour one-on-one with them — make it a two hour one-on-one.
Director of IT in Software, 201 - 500 employees
The culture at work can’t be like an army where you have to follow orders and show no emotion. People have to be able to share when they're stressed or have personal issues, because those personal issues will affect their work. It’s better for my employees to tell me about those things because then we can either chat or I can give them time off for things like counseling. Otherwise, they’ll underperform for weeks and be a burden on the whole team, at which point their manager will put more pressure on them. People don't want to be seen as vulnerable, whether they're leaders or employees. But we are all human. When you have neighbors over for dinner, you are open to sharing things. But when you work with someone, even though you see them every day, you still think you have to look a certain way and censor your emotions if you’re under stress.
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